Making Polite Requests

Using modal verbs like “could”, would or “can” makes a request more polite, but there are also a lot of phrases we use to be less direct and more polite when we make requests. We mostly use these phrases in the following situations:

  1. When the person to whom we are making the request does not have an obligation to say yes.

  2. When we are asking the other person to do us a favour.

  3. When we are making a request to someone who is at a higher level within the company.

  4. We are requesting something from a customer.

Phrases for making polite requests:

I was wondering if you/I could…
I was wondering if you could lend me your car next Tuesday.
I was wondering if I could mention your company as a reference customer.

Do you think you/I could…?
Do you think you could help me out with these reports?
Do you think I could leave a few minutes early so I can pick up my child from school?

I would really appreciate it if you/I could…?

It would be great if you/I could…?

I’m sorry, but could I please…? (when asking for permission)

I’m sorry, but could you please…? (when bothered by something)

It would help me a lot if you/I could/would …?

Would you mind (verb)+ing …?

Would you mind if I borrowed …?

It would really speed up the process if you could ...?

To assist you, I would need …

In order to solve this issue, could you please …?

Requesting more details (especially in support)

To assist you with your request, I urgently need the following details …

In order to solve this issue, could you please send me the following details:

To enable us to resolve your issue

To investigate your issue

To give us a full picture of your issue

To facilitate our investigation into your issue

To expedite our investigation into your issue

 

Could/can you please provide me with…
Would you mind sending me…

I would really appreciate it if you could let me have…

it would be great if you could send me…

It would help me a lot if you could/would provide me with…

Have you already opened a ticket in this regard?

Have you already opened a ticket regarding this issue?